Saturday, September 15, 2018

Observing Communication Through Television





I watched a show called The Good Wife without any sound to see how to character’s body language matched in regards to their emotions.  I have never watched the show, but heard that it was very good.  It was based upon South Carolina governor’s marital affair. 

Watching the show without sound….. 

Based upon the scene, I could see that the female character was uncomfortable at the beginning of the show. The show started with what looked like a couple holding hands and the man said something to the reporters and the wife was imagining the man naked with someone else.  The woman looked as if she was in shock, hurt, and ashamed, but continued to move where the man was going hand in hand.  They walked in some back hall and she completely stopped. The man turned around and said something.  The woman slapped the man across the face, then walked towards a crowd of reporters.  She was still in shock, but looked as if she was walking more confident.  The scene went to 6 months later and she was in a conference room.  Her facial expression looked as if the meeting was late, and someone walked into the room.  She immediately picked up her things and ran to another part of the building.  The meeting was being held in another part of the building.  She eased in the back of the room, and started to look around.  She looked as if she was embarrassed.  The presenter closed the meeting a few minutes after she had gotten there. 

During another scene she went into another woman’s office where there was a dog.  She was handed a box of papers and had a short conversation with her.  The first female’s face looked as if she was trying to retain information.  She appeared to be mentally preparing herself for work or an assignment.  After the discussion, she walked down a hall and spoke to a number of other people.  When speaking to the other people, her body language and expressions changed to be more business casual.  She laughed as if she was discussing something funny or interesting.   

Watching the show with sound….. 

The main character’s husband was explaining what happened and why he was resigning.  Her body language and the emotions showed that she was distraught.  She was trying to self monitor herself.  O’hair, Weimann, and Mullin (2015) describe this as watching others around you to see how you should behave.  She was masking her feelings and trying to look as if she was supportive and understanding. I was correct when I assumed that she was in shock, hurt and ashamed during the conference.  Her husband was cheating on her.  Based upon the first part of the show, it seemed as if she would not be able to handle the press and information overload she was receiving.  I believe I was wrong when I said that she was walking with more confidence.  It appeared as if she was still with him after the 6 months had gone by.  One could see that she was still affected by the scene, but it would not destroy the main character.  

The main character (Alisha) was a lawyer and waiting for the staff meeting to start.  After finding out that she was late, she was assigned the cases that didn’t have any significant value to the firm.  She was given multiple tasks to do by another co-work who kept her dog in her office.  This woman gave Alisha a client that would have to represent later that day. This caused Alisha to be very unsure of her ability to assist the client.  Alisha’s insecurities didn’t show as she spoke to the other employees while walking down the hall.  I was also wrong with the assumption that she was comfortable with her other co-workers. She wasn’t and the smile was a smirk, because they were playing and commenting on the video of her husband’s speech while she held his hand.

After watching half of the video, I realized I was able to identify a portion of what the character was trying to portray.  My assumptions were about half correct.  If I knew more about the show, I would be able to identify more communication skills. It would know the significance of following Alisha.     

Reference:  
   
O'Hair, D., Wiemann, M., Mullin, D. I., & Teven, J. (2015). Real communication (3rd. ed). New York: Bedford/St. Martin's.


1 comment:

  1. Hi Alisha,

    I enjoyed reading your post since I have seen the Good Wife series. In the show, there are many instances where there nonverbal expression does not match what is happening verbally. Their verbal communication explains a lot of the storyline, but sometimes not truth telling in how they really feel since it does not match their non-verbal communications. Alisha does not find her confidence until later in the show, and she tries to self-monitor and hide her true feelings from many people after being hurt. I hope you enjoyed watching part of the show.

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